THIS IS WHAT I AM LOOKING FOR!!!

I ALSO READ THIS FROM "THE COURAGE TO BE A SINGLE MOTHER" BY SHEILA ELLISON.

SHE QUOTES ABOUT HER BOYFRIEND; "YOU ARE MORE IMPORTANT TO ME THAN ANYTHING THAT WE DISAGREE ABOUT," REACHING TOWARD ME WITH HEALING, LOVE, AND PERSPECTIVE ON WHATEVER ISSUE I CAN'T SEEM TO LET GO OF.

NOW THAT IS WHAT I CALL TRUE LOVE.  MY OPINION!!

I HAVE ALSO READ; "RELATIONSHIP RESCUE BY DR. PHIL.  HE MENTION HOW PARTNER'S COULD DISAGREE IN SO MANY WAYS BUT TO REMEMBER THAT THEY ARE IN LOVE WITH EACH OTHER.  AND THEIR DIFFERENCES ARE JUST THAT.  DIFFERENCES!!! 

IT'S HOW YOU WORK WITH EACH OTHER THAT MAKES YOUR RELATIONSHIP.  THIS IS WHAT I HAVE LEARNED BY READING DR. PHIL'S BOOK. IS SAD TO ME BECAUSE IT'S TO LATE FOR MY RELATIONSHIP WITH MY HUSBAND.  OR SO HE SAYS.  I HAVE LEARNED TO ACCEPT THAT. I KEEP THINKING TO MYSELF, IT'S HIS LOST.  NOT THAT I'M PERFECT BUT I TRUELY DO LOVE HIM AND WANTED TO WORK THINGS OUT.  BUT HE DOESN'T, SO WHAT CAN I DO.  ((NOTHING))!!!!!!

I ALSO HEARD THIS TODAY. I CAN'T REMEMBER THE EXACT WORDS BUT IT WAS LIKE;  FALLING IN LOVE THE FIRST TIME IS NICE, BUT TO ACCEPT YOUR PARTNER AGAIN THE SECOND TIME IS BETTER.   IT WAS ON GOOD MORNING AMERICA, ABOUT A WIFE HAVE AN AFFAIR.  AND THEY WERE GOING TO RENEW THEIR VOWS.  SOMETHING TO THINK ABOUT.