ABOUT KIDS.......

FROM DR. DOBSON’S BOOK; LOVE MUST BE TOUGH.

 

“……..ESPCIALLY THOSE WHO ACHE FOR THE ARMS OF A DEPARTED PARENT. IT IS AN EVERYDAY OCCURRENCE AMONG CHILDREN IN THE UNITED STATES. OVER HALF OF THE BOYS AND GIRLS UNDER EIGHTEEN YEARS OF AGE HAVE ONE OR BOTH PARENTS MISSING.  WITHIN THREE YEARS OF THE DIVORCE, HALF OF THE FATHERS NEVER SEE THEIR CHILDREN. …….BUT OFTEN THE MOTIVE FOR FAMILY DISINTEGRATION IS NOTHING MORE SUBSTANTIAL THAN UNBRIDLED SELFISHNESS.  IN THOSE INSTANCES, I MUST ASK WHAT SEXUAL THRILLS—WHAT ROMANIC EXTRAVAGANZAS, WHAT CONFLICT—COULD JUSTIFY THE PAIN OF A CHILD? IT WILL BE REMEMBERED FOR A LIFETIME!”

 

I KNOW THAT MY SON WILL BE THE ONE TO HURT THE MOST.  AS OF RIGHT NOW, HE ASK FOR HIM EVERY NIGHT.  CALLS HIM, “MY DADDY.” THERE WILL BE NIGHT TO COMFORT HIS HEART AND TEARS. AND I WILL HATE HIM FOR BRING THIS ON………… AS FOR MY DAUGHTERS, WHICH ARE OLDER?  THEY SOMEWHAT UNDERSTAND BUT THE OLDEST WANT TO MOVE IN WITH HER DADDY.  AND MY BABY GIRL, SHE IS TORE UP BETWEEN; SHE WAS TO STAY WITH ME. BUT SHE WANTS HER DADDY. I CAN’T BELIEVE HE WANTS TO ONLY BE A PART-TIME DAD.