JUST SOMETHING I HAVE TO WRITE (TYPE) OUT.
FROM DR. JAMES DOBSON'S BOOK; "LOVE MUST BE TOUGH."
THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN STABLE FAMILIES AND THOSE IN SERIOUS TROUBLE REFLECTS WHAT THE BATTLES ACCOMPLISH. IN HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS, A PERIOD OF CONFRONTATION ENDS IN FORGIVENESS--IN DRAWING TOGETHER--IN DEEPER RESPECT AND UNDERSTANDING--AND SOMETIMES IN SEXUAL SATISFACION. BUT IN UNSTABLE MARRIAGES A PERIOD OF CONFLICT PRODUCES GREATER PAIN AND ANGER THAT PERSISTS UNTIL THE NEXT FIGHT. WHEN THAT OCCURS, ONE UNRESOLVED ISSUE IS COMPOUNDED BY ANOTHER AND ANOTHER. THAT ACCUMULATION OF RESENTMENT IS AN OMINOUS CIRCUMSTANCE IN ANY MARRIAGE.
LIKE IN DR. PHIL'S BOOK, RELATIONSHIP RESCUE. HE TALKS ABOUT DIFFERENTS. COUPLE COULD BE SO DIFFERENT FROM EACH OTHER, BUT IF THEY LOVE EACH OTHER AND WORK AT THERE DIFFERENCES. THAT IS WHAT MARRIAGE IS ALL ABOUT. I THINK......
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