"WE CRAVE THAT WHICH WE CAN'T ATTAIN, BUT WE DISRESPECT THAT WHICH WE CAN'T ESCAPE. THIS AXIOM IS PARTICULARLY RELAVANT IN ROMANTIC MATTERS, AND HAS PROBABLY INFLUENCED YOUR LOVE LIFE, TOO." FROM DR. DOBSON'S BOOK - LOVE MUST BE TOUGH.

AS HUMANS WE NEED TO STEP BACK AND SEE THE REAL PICTURE.