"YOU GET TRIED OF FEELING LIKE YOU ARE NOT WANTED." I HEARD THIS TODAY FROM SOMEONE WHO HAS BEEN DIVORCE.
TO ME.......... IT SOUNDS LIKE AN EXCUSE. I GUESS TO MAKE THE DIVORCE OK. SOME HOW TO MAKE THEMSELF FEEL BETTER. THE REASON.......
IT'S LIKE DR. PHIL SAYS. IN RELATIONSHIP RESCUE.
"YOU CHOOSE HOW YOU ACT AND HOW YOU REACT TO YOUR PARTNER IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP. YOU OWN YOUR RELATIONSHIP. YOU ARE ONE HUNDRES PERCENT ACCOUNTABLE FOR IT."
"YOUR FIRST STEP SHOULD BE TO EVALUATE WHAT YOU SPECIFICALLY ARE DOING TO CAUSE THAT LACK OF FULFULLMENT." THAT WHY I SAY IT'S AN EXCUSE.........
"IT'S ABOUT YOU CREATING A DIFFERENT LIFESYLE THAT WILL ENHANCE YOUR RELATIONSHIP. IT'S ABOUT YOU WAKING UP IN THE MORNING WITH A REFRESHING REALIZATION THAT YOU ARE PADDLING AND STEERING YOUR OWN CANOE."
SOME WORDS FOR THOUGHT.......
wise words...I was divorced ten years ago....the most stressful time of my life, the constant worries about starting a new future alone...but in the end, the best thing that ever happened to me. Keep the faith.
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