Friday, April 15, 2005

HE SAID, SHE SAID.........

I HAD A HUGE ARGUMENT WITH MY HUSBAND........YES, IT HAS STARTED.........

THIS WEEKEND IS HIS WEEKEND WITH THE KIDS. I HAD EMAILED HIM ABOUT IT.  WELL, HE EMAILED ME THAT, HE HAS WORK OBLIGATIONS ON FRIDAY AND SUNDAY.......BUT HE WILL BE AVAILABLE FOR SATURDAY.
I EMAILED HIM WITH THE NOTE.........THIS IS YOUR WEEKEND......PICK THEM UP AT 6PM, FRIDAY.

WELL, HE CALLED ME ALL PISSED.......AND BOY, WAS HE.
HE DIDN'T WANT TO BE TOLD WHAT TO DO.  AND THAT HE HAD OBLIGATIONS THAT CAN NOT BE RESCHEDULE.  I WAS UPSET TOO......AND TOLD HIM, WHEN THAT HAPPENS TO ME. I HAVE TO FIND A BABYSITTER.  NOW, YOU KNOW WHAT I GO THRU......WELL, HE REPEATED THAT HE WILL BE AVAILABLE FOR SAT........
I TOLD HIM IF HE WAS NOT THERE TO PICK THEM UP AT 6 PM ON FRIDAY. NOT TO PLAN TO SEE THEM, THIS  WEEKEND. HE TOLD ME, I WOULDN'T SEE ANY FINANCIAL SUPPORT. I SAID, THEM YOU WILL NOT SEE THEM AT ALL........ HE SAID, FINE B@#@#, I SEE YOU IN COURT......THEM HUNG UP.

LOOKING BACK, I AM SORRY FOR HOW I HANDLE IT........IN SOMEWAYS.  HE DOES NEED TO BE RESPONSIBLE FOR WHEN HE HAS HIS CHILDREN.  AND I UNDERSTAND, HE DOES NEED TO WORK.  BUT HE WAS SO MEAN.........

AFTER EVERYTHING, I TOLD HIM; I WAS SORRY FOR HOW I ACTED, I COULD OF WORK SOME OTHER ARANGMENTS WITH HIM.....BUT IT DOES SHOW WHERE HIS KIDS STAND. WORK COMES BEFORE HIS KIDS.  AND SOMETIME IT UNAVOIDABLE, BUT THIS IS NOT THE FIRST TIME.......THAT'S WHY I ACTED THE WAY I DID......

PLUS, I RATHER HAVE MY KIDS WITH ME.......THAN BE ALONE. SO HE WILL SEE THE KIDS ON SATURDAY.........

AND I GUESS WILL SEE HOW THINGS WILL ROLL........

TILL NEXT TIME....... 


3 comments:

  1. Brin when you said that you were sorry did he back down too?  Apologize?  Or keep up the attitude?
    <sigh> Ex husbands you can't live with em', ya can't kill em'  ;o)
    Stacy

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  2. Brin, You were angry, and now regret the words said, it happens. Have you been to a lawyer yet ??? That will help with the schedules of who gets the kids when.
    Ellen

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  3. that was big of you to apologize brin, I hope he did too...I totally see the point both of you have in this dilemna...but that was good of you to say you were sorry, the very least, I hope he did too!

    ~  www.jerseygirljournal.com

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