IS WAS UGLY...........
HE TURNED EVERYTHING AROUND. HOW CONFUSSED HE IS. HE WANTED HIS LAWYER TO DO ALL THE WORK. SO I TRYED TO EXPLAIN, HOW IF I JUST LET HIS LAWYER DO THE WORK. MY RIGHTS WOULD BE TAKEN AWAY. THAT IF HE DECIDE THAT HE DID WANT THE KIDS OR ANYTHING ELSE, AFTER MY DEFAULT PERIOD. I WOULD HAVE NO FOOT TO STAND ON, BECAUSE I DIDN 'T ANSWER TO THE PETITION. BUT HE TURNED IT AROUND. SAID, THAT NOW THE LAWYERS ARE GOING TO CHANGE EVERYTHING. BUT I TOLD HIM, THAT IT IS STILL UP TO HIM TO TELL HIS LAWYER HOW HE WANTS TO HANDLE IT. LETS SEE IF HE IS GOING TO KEEP HIS WORD. WE HAVE DECIDED HOW WE ARE GOING TO SPLIT EVERYTHING AND HOW IS GOING TO FALL. BUT I KNOW EVERYONE HAS TOLD ME. THAT DIVORCE CHANGE EVERYONE. SO WILL SEE IF HE IS GOING TO KEEP HIS WORD. IF HE DOES HE CHANGE THINGS. HE IS GOING TO BLAM HIS LAWYER, I JUST KNOW IT. THAT IS HOW HE HANDLING THINGS.
LAST NIGHT, HE KEPT CHANGE EVERYTHING. HE PUT ALL THE BLAME ON ME. HE EVEN ACCUSED ME. THAT I HAVE NOT THANKED HIM FOR HELPING ME WITH MY CAR, AND UNDERSTANDING. THAT'S WHEN I WALK OUT. I COULD NOT TAKE IT. HE WAS CHANGE EVERYTHING. HE WANTS TO SEE IT LIKE THAT. THAT I AM SELFISH, UNGRATEFUL, MEAN, TAKE EVERYTHING THAT I CAN. I SEE THAT HE HAS THE PROBLEM. AND I CAN HELP HIM ANYMORE. I CAN SHOW OR TELL HIM ANYTHING BECAUSE HE WILL NOT LISTEN.
I HAVE DONE ALL I CAN. AND I WILL LET HIM GO. IF HE WANTS TO HELP, THEN HE IS GOING TO HAVE TO SHOW ME. IF HE IS WORRIED THAT HIS KIDS ARE NOT EATTING OR HAVE CLOTHES. THEN HE IS GOING TO HAVE TO BRING FOOD & CLOTHING FOR THEM. I WILL NOT KEEP HIM INFORM ABOUT OUR SITUATION. I WILL DO WHAT I CAN WITH WHAT I CAN.
TIME TO LIVE LIFE.........WITH MY KIDS, AND NO HUSBAND.
TILL NEXT TIME............
Wednesday, May 18, 2005
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Brin I am almost glad that he is being such an *ss - maybe then you will realize you don't need him and wonder what the heck you ever saw in him and be able to move on. The truth is that the man that you love and the man that you are crying over doesn't even exist any more - he is long gone - because that man that you remember from way back when you were happy - he couldn't do this to you, could he? Watch your heart girl - you have me very nervous that he will say jump and you will say how high - protect yourself.
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I'm so sorry that you are going through all this. You sound like you are ready to take a stand and start looking out for you and your kids! He seems to be so wishy washy and dragging you through every emotion possible. BE Strong! Hang in there!
ReplyDeleteMichele
I had hopes that things would work out for you but if he's going to be dirty like that, I wouldn't want to be with him either. I wish you the best and will remember you in my prayers.
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Kathi
You did NOTHING wrong, you are protecting yourself and your children by seeing a lawyer. He filed the initial divorce documents, what were you supposed to do? Sit there and let them just go forward in the Court system without you having ANY input? Of course you had to see an attorney, of course the attorney said they would represent you. Divorce is NEVER easy nor is it EVER friendly. I used to say that divorce turns 2 adults into 2 children overnight fighting over the same toy and it's the truth. The petty things will become huge arguments. That dish that you got for your wedding that you both hated, he will want that now! He started this, remember that. You did NOTHING wrong!!!!
ReplyDeleteHugs and love, Lisa
Brin, You are going thru the hardest thing you have ever went thru in your life. Keep good representation no matter what. At this point your hubby is totally full of shit and dont believe anything he says. He has proven he is lying and playing games. I know the hurt. Been there. It will take a long long time to mourn all these years , the time and the love. No one can really know whats in your heart but you. Just try to stay strong. You need a support system there, in person. Do you have one? I care very much!! Love, lisa
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