THE DAY IS OVER..........

I DID HEAR FROM MY HUSBAND.  WE MADE PLANS, AND HE CAME BY TO PICK UP THE KIDS.  MY OLDEST DAUGHTER CAME WITH HIM.......
IT WAS SO NICE TO SEE HER......
SHE WAS FEELING A LITTLE ILL ON FRIDAY, BUT SHE DID SAY THAT SHE IS DOING BETTER........  I WAS GLAD TO SEE HER.

WELL, I DIDN'T WANT TO STAY IN THE HOUSE ALONG. SO, I WENT OUT.......
WHILE DRIVING I DID CALL MY MOTHER. TO GET MY FATHER'S PHONE #. SHE WASN'T HOME.  SO, I CALLED MY COUSIN.  SHE HAD IT.
I HAD CALLED THE HOUSE, BUT HE WAS NOT HOME. SO I CALLED THE CELL PHONE # AND LEFT A MESSAGE.
WELL, MY MOTHER FINALLY CALLED ME BACK.  WE TALKED AND SHE INFORMED ME ABOUT MY SISTER.
BOY, SHE IS IN A BIG MESS........
AND I HAD MENTION TO HER THAT I HAD CALLED MY FATHER AND LEFT A MESSAGE.  WELL, MY BROTHER WAS THERE AND HE TRYED CALLING MY FATHER. TO LET HIM KNOW THAT I TRYED TO REACH HIM.  IT HAS BEEN ALONG TIME SINCE I CALLED MY FATHER, DON'T HAVE HIS #. SO, FOR ME TO CALL AND ON FATHER'S DAY.  WAS A BIG DEAL.........

YOU SEE..... I TOO HAVE A VERY DYSFUNCTIONAL FAMILY.....  ALONG WITH OTHER THINGS.........

NOW, MY SISTER........  I RECENTLY FOUND OUT FROM MY MOTHER THAT SHE IS INVOLVED WITH A DRUG DEALER.  MIND YOU, SHE HAD 3 LITTLE ONES. AND THESE PASS 2 DAYS HAVE BEEN BAD....... IT STARTED WITH HIM WANTING TO SMOKE A JOINT (GRASS) WHATEVER, YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN......  WELL, HE SMOKE ONE AND WANTED OTHER.  BUT MY SISTER DIDN'T WANT HIM TOO.... AND TRYED TO STOP HIM.  WELL, HE WENT OFF ON HER AND SHE WAS ATTACKED.  WELL, SHE LEFT AND WHEN TO MY MOTHER. AND HE FOLLOWED AND WAS YELLING ON HER YARD AT 4 IN THE MORNING.  WELL, MY MOTHER CALLED THE POLICE AND HAD HIM ARRESTED.  WELL, BY THAT AFTERNOON, HE WAS OUT.  AND BY THIS TIME, MY FATHER FOUND OUT ABOUT THIS AND WENT AFTER HIM.  YEP, THEY FOUGHT. BUT FROM WHAT I HEAR, MY SISTER WAS IN THE MIDDLE OF THIS.......
SO STUPID.......... SHE GOT CAUGHT WITH ALL THE PUNCH AND HITS..... I CAN'T BELIEVE HER........

WELL, MY FATHER FINALLY CALLED ME BACK.......
AND WE DID TALK, NOT ABOUT THAT.....
I REALLY DIDN'T WANT TO GET IN THE MIDDLE OF THAT......
BUT HE DID SOMETHING.........
HE APOLOGIZE FOR MY CHILDHOOD. HE HAS BEEN PRAYING FOR ME. AND HE TOLD ME IF I EVER NEED ANYTHING TO CALL.......
HIS IS STILL MY FATHER AND HE KNOW HE MADE MISTAKES..........  AND STILL DOES. NO ONE IS PERFECT. BUT TO LEARN, NOT TO REPEAT THE MISTAKES, IS WHAT MATTERS......
AND THEN WE SAID OUR GOODBYES........

AFTER TALKING TO HIM. I COULDN'T GET MY SISTER OFF MY MIND.......
SO, I CALLED HER.......
I TOLD HER I WAS CALLING BECAUSE OUR MOTHER TOLD ME ABOUT HER BOYFRIEND....
SHE SAID SHE DIDN'T WANT TO GET INTO IT. SHE WAS TRIED AND WANTED TO BE LEFT ALONE........
I TOLD HER THAT IS FINE..........
BUT I NEED TO SAY MY PEACE........

"I FEEL THAT YOU WILL BE GOING TO JAIL, IF YOU KEEP UP WITH HIM...... AND YOU HAVE 3 KIDS TO THINK ABOUT. IS HE WORTH EVERYTHING.... BECAUSE YOU ARE GOING TO LOSS EVERYTHING, YOU AND THE KIDS......  SHE TELLS ME THAT HE WANTS TO CHANGE. YEA......BUT LOOK AT THE FACTS.  IS HE CHANGING........ THINK WITH YOUR MIND ABOUT EVERYTHING.  IF HE IS CHANGING AND STAY THAT WAY.  THEN WORK WITH HIM TO MAKE YOUR RELATIONSHIP WORK.  BUT IF HE IS BEING ABUSIVE AND DOING THE DRUGS IN YOUR HOUSE WITH YOUR KIDS.  YOU ARE JUST ASKING FOR TROUBLE.  THINK ABOUT IT."

WE TALKED SO MUCH.......  I HOPE I GOT THROUGH TO HER......  PLEASE SAY A PRAYER FOR HER.

WELL, TILL NEXT TIME........