WELL, I RECEIVED AN EMAIL........
FROM MY HUSBAND........
HE HAS STOPPED CALLING ME. AND IS NOW EMAILING ME.
THIS ONE WAS HARD, BECAUSE HE SOUNDS HEARTBROKEN.
HE TELLS ME THIS:
"I TALKED TO "BABY GIRL" AND "LITTLE MAN" ON THE PHONE. I REALLY MISS THEM. I HAVE ONE OF THE PICTURES YOU EMAILED ME ON MY DESKTOP AS A BACKGROUND AND EVERYTIME I SEE HIM, IT REALLY HURTS. BUT, I CAN'T AND WON'T REMOVE IT. THE ONLY REASON I BRING THIS UP BECAUSE IN MOST DIVORCE'S THE DAD ALSO GETS TIME DURING THE WEEK. WOULD YOU HAVE A PROBLEM WITH THAT? IF THERE IS A CERTAIN DAY THAT YOU USUALLY HAVE PLANS, MAYBE THEY CAN COME WITH ME FOR A COUPLE OF HOURS. ANYWAY, LET ME KNOW WHAT YOU THINK. I REALLY WISH YOU AND "OLDEST" WOULD GET ALONG A LITTLE BETTER. I AM STAYING OUT OF THE SITUATION AS YOU ASKED ME TO, BUT I REALLY WANT YOU TWO TO MAINTAIN YOUR RELATIONSHIP. YOU BOTH NEED EACH OTHER MORE THAN YOU THINK IN MY OPINION. IF THERE IS EVERY ANYTHING I CAN DO TO HELP THAT SITUATION, LET ME KNOW."
SO WHAT DO YOU ALL THINK???????
I AM GOING TO MAKE PLANS WITH HIM. WELL, SEE HOW IT WILL GO.........
TILL NEXT TIME........
Friday, June 24, 2005
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I know how hard this is on you. I'm sorry. He is trying to be helpful to you, which is good.
ReplyDeleteEllen
The email sounds civil. He may be trying to keep it neutral so he can see the kids. You know, its hard to read a mans mind. They are wired different. Have a happy Friday. Love, lisa
ReplyDeleteI have to agree with Lisa. Good luck and God bless you for the work you are doing....the hardest job in the world, the most under estimated, most unappreciated, least pay (yeah right, pay???), yet the most important. And on your journey!!!
ReplyDeleteAs in any divorce, most of the visitations that are ordered are worked out between the parents through the lawyers. But, if you two are willing to work out some sort of agreement WITHOUT lawyers, than I would say go right ahead and do it! Lots of the divorces I did would give the father one day per week to pick the kids up from school and keep them until 8:00 p.m. so that they were home in time to get sleep on a school night. As long as you are both still communicating and working this situation out, that's a GOOD thing!!! I say DEFINATELY yes, let him have a visit during the week. :)
ReplyDeleteHugs and love, Lisa
Its good that he doesnt call anymore and just emails. I hope that you and him can work out a good arrangement with the kids.
ReplyDeletehugs,
Kathi