I CAN HOME TO MY BABY GIRL CRYING HER EYES OUT..........
IT BROKE MY HEART TO SEE HER LIKE THIS. SHE HAS BEEN THROUGH SO MUCH...... AND STILL........
SHE HAD AN ARGUMENT WITH HER SISTER.
WHAT HER SISTER DID IS A PERFECT EXAMPLE OF WHAT SHE IS LIKE. AND WHY I WAS ALWAYS ON HER.
REMEMBER THAT MY BABY GIRL IS A FRESHMAN. FIRST YEAR IN HIGH SCHOOL. DEALING WITH MARCHING BAND (STATE YEAR COMPETITIION). AND HER PARENTS GOING THROUGH A DIVORCE.
YOU SEE..........
THE HIGH SCHOOL HERE IS ACROSS THE STREET FROM THE JUNIOR HIGH SCHOOL. AFTER SCHOOL MY BABY GIRL WANTED TO GO OVER TO THE JUNIOR HIGH TO SAY HELLO TO HER JUNIOR HIGH FRIENDS. ASK HER SISTER IF SHE COULD PICK HER UP AT THE JUNIOR HIGH AFTER SHE WAS DONE FROM HER BAND TEST. MY OLDEST PICKS UP HER SISTER EVERY MORNING TO TAKE HER TO SCHOOL AND EVERY AFTERNOON TO BRING HER HOME.
WELL, SHE TOLD HER NO, IF SHE WANTED A RIDE HOME SHE HAD TO BE BACK AT THE HIGH SCHOOL BY 4 PM. SO, SHE RUSHED TO THE JUNIOR HIGH AND SAID HELLO AND RUSHED BACK BY 4 PM TO MEET HER.
WHEN SHE RETURNED BACK, SHE HADN'T EVEN GOTTEN READY FOR HER TEST. WELL, THEY HAD AN ARGUMENT IN FRONT OF EVERY ONE IN THE BAND HALL.
SO SHE WAITED FOR HER TO FINISH AND THEY LEFT. BUT HAD ANOTHER ARGUMENT THE RIDE HOME.
SHE TOLD ME THAT THEY ARE STUDENTS. WHO ARE TALKING BAD ABOUT MY OLDEST. AND SHE STICKS UP FOR HER SISTER. BUT THEM TREATS HER THEY WAY SHE DID.
SHE WAS SO UPSET. I CRIED WITH HER. I TOLD HER HOW SORRY THAT SHE WAS GOING THROUGH THIS. THAT HER SISTER IS BE UGLY. AND SHE DOESN'T UNDERSTAND.
MY OLDEST ALSO TALKED TO MY HUSBAND ABOUT NOT WANTING TO PICK UP HER SISTER FOR SCHOOL AND TO BRING HER HOME. MY HUSBAND TOLD HER SHE NEEDED TO BE THERE FOR HER SISTER. BUT SHE IS JUST REBELING. TYPICAL TEENAGER.......
THIS IS HOW SHE IS HANDLING THINGS. BOTH OF THEM GOING THROUGH SO MUCH. BUT THAT DOES NOT GIVE HER THE RIGHT TO TAKE IT OUT ON HER SISTER. SHE SHOULD BE THERE FOR HER. BE THE OLDER SISTER THAT SHE NEEDS.
MY OLDEST IS UPSET WITH HER SISTER BECAUSE SHE TOLD HER DAD THAT SHE IS PUTTING HER IN THE MIDDLE. ABOUT MY OLDEST AND ME. SHE KEPT TELL MY BABY GIRL HOW SHE IS UPSET WITH ME, ALONG WITH OTHER THINGS. BUT IF YOU REMEMBER OR I DON'T REMEMBER IF I WROTE ABOUT THIS.
BUT MY BABY GIRL HAD TOLD HER DAD THAT SHE WAS TRIED OF BEING IN THE MIDDLE OF MY HUSBAND AND ME PLUS MY OLDEST AND ME.
LIKE I SAID SHE IS GOING THROUGH SO MUCH........
EVERYDAY IT SEEMS LIKE SOMETHING IS HAPPENING.......
WHY CAN'T IT BE SO NORMAL.....
SAY A PRAYER FOR US. THAT THINGS WILL GET BETTER.
TILL NEXT TIME.........
Hope u don't mind my opinion but if she is going to treat her sister like that then everyone needs to treat her like that includein her father. I know she works does she pay for the insurance and all? If so I wouldn't. So sad Brin:o( D
ReplyDeleteBrin, I cant imagine how hare this is on your little one. But he oldest is being selfish and imature. She will someday regret how she is treating her little sister.
ReplyDeleteEllen
I get so upset when my girls are at odds with each other. I always say the same thing, that they have each other and it's important to take care of each other. With you and your daughters going through so much with the soon to be X and such, it a good time to really band together.
ReplyDeleteThen again, being teen girls is tough enough. You listened and cried with your daughter, I think that shows all the support and love she needs.
Take care you and hang in there, I can read your growing :o)
Rebecca
Prayers are being sent Brin... I understand because I have one in 9th and one in 12th - The 12th grader seems to think the 9th grader was born to do stuff to make him look stupid! The only person who thinks he is doing stupid stuff tho is my 12th grader! Anyway, just checking up on you... I will say lots of prayers for your girls and you and the lil guy too!
ReplyDeleteHugs with Love,
Kendra