I CAN NOT BELIEVE WHAT I JUST SAW.................
MY SON CAME DOWN WITH 101.1 FEVER, YESTERDAY MORNING. SO, I CALLED ON THE X FOR HELP.......... HE GAVE ME EXCUSES......... WAS ON VACATION LAST WEEK, MY BOSS SUPERVISER IS IN TOWN...... I HUNG UP AND DID WHAT I CAN........
YOU SEE....... HE IS ON SALARY AND I AM ON HOURLY AND LIVE PAYCHECK TO PAYCHECK........ SO ME MISSING WORK HURTS ME........
WELL, I TOKE HIM TO THE DOCTOR YESTERDAY. HE HAS AN UPPER RESP. INFECTION. AND NEEDED MEDICATION.......
WHICH HE COULD NOT HELP ME WITH EITHER, SO, I DO WHAT I CAN..........
SO I ASKED IF HE COULD SIT WITH HIS SON TODAY..... NO, EXCUSE ONCE AGAIN...............
BUT WHAT DID I SEE TODAY............
PASSING BY THE MISTRESS DAYCARE.........
MY X'S CAR........... YEP, HE WAS PICKING HER KIDS UP FROM DAYCARE....... HE HAS NOT EVEN CALLED ME TODAY TO SEE HOW HIS SON IS DOING........... B****** HE WAS ALSO IN GOLF SHORTS. MEANING THAT HE PLAYED TODAY........ SO I LOST HOURS FOR WORK AND HE WAS PLAYING GOLF.............
UHHHHHHHH....... WHAT A JERK...........
BRENDA.......



OH yeah you know when my ex was arond Tracy was taken to ER and he never called or showed. When I nearly miscarried twice he never showed to check on baby and when she was two months old and given a 50 /50 chance to live he enver once shoed and I was not able to work at all and he quit paying and they were bout to shut off my elecetric and did he help NOPE not one dime. YOu see his children need to know you have asked and given him the chance to show up. But it was him that did not. Becuase two years later my ex tried to tell them Idid not tell him about it. BUT tracy had been there and heard it he did not realize as hewas out side thedoor that she was behind the door. !!!!!!!!she remembered me tleling him her sister was sick. see its sad they have to knwo and see this stuff but they need to see so they know who to trust and who to turn to. If your oldest reads this then that is her choice shes old enough. HONEY IM so sorry. HUGS to you and your son. HOpe hes better soon.!!!!!!!!!!!
ReplyDeleteHe is a J E R K!
ReplyDeleteI wonder how he lives with himself.
He must not have a concience.
Shame on him!
Huggs n love 2u-
Niki
How could he put her kids before his very own? No reason for that
ReplyDeleteEllen
It'll come back to bite him in the butt in later years when his kids won't have anything to do woth him, because they do notice this stuff. Hang in there. rhonda
ReplyDeleteDo I just keep telling you the same thing??? I tried to never say anything bad about my ex to our son, no matter how bad I wanted to. But my son's first realization came when my hubby moved the girlfriend in the day we were to start marriage counciling. Guess you can figure out we didnn't get to counciling. Rhonda
ReplyDeleteWhat a total and complete asshole. I could write a book. Brin, i am so sorry you have to deal with this man at all. Someday if he continues this neglect of his responsibilities of his children it will come back to haunt him. REMEMBER THAT. Stay strong and do what you can. Find a network of female friends to help you out if need be. Dont rely on him for anything. He sucks. I have a feeling that he has let this mistress slut of his cloud his common sense and he may never get it back again.
ReplyDeletelove you, lisa