What a day I had yesterday...................

My car broke down..... that started it.

Then I was trying to rent a car when their policy became an issue.  Since I did not have a major credit card, and just a debit credit card.  They needed 2 forms of utility bills with my address, plus 2 ref's and my employer ref.  All this was going on at 5:45 and I need to pick up DJ at 6 from day care.  So I call my Ex to see if he was able to pick up DJ.  He does not answer.  I called also my friend Thelma, but she was not in Corpus.  So I call again the Ex, and he still does not answer.

Since I did not have the 2 forms of bills, I had the Enterprise guy drop me off at the day care, and I asked if he could schedule to pick me up in the morning.  Everything else was going to have to wait.  Which he did.

Also DJ and I had to walk back to our apartment though a busy intersection at 6 pm. I live next door to the day care, so it would not be a long walk for DJ.  What worry me was the traffic.  I did not have any one else I could call.  I need to make friend with my neighbors.  I need friends in Corpus.  Well, I do.  In the morning while I was walking DJ to school.  I realize that I could of call my friend Melinda.  She lives in Corpus.

Well this was a learned lesson.....  I know that my Ex is still a jerk, and I know who to call when I have an ER.....

Well, the Ex calls me as we are walking.  I told him what was going on and not to worry that I am taking care of it. Told him that we are walking.  He did not care.....

After we were home, I started to think about everything.  That is when I became pissed me off.  I called my EX, and I told him what if DJ was seriously hurt, and he does not answer his phone.  What then....  He said he would be there for his son.  Yea, after everything was done........   Well, though the night he and I would call each other to tell each other off.  What a jerk.....

He said some mean things, and he found a way to blame me again......  He assumes to much....
He told me that I should buy a new car with the money I made with the house. He also said how I just gave the girls only $500 each, and I made so much with the house.  Plus I sold everything else in the house that he worked so hard to get. He went on and on.......

He does not know how, or what I did with the money.  He does not need to know that it none of his business, yet he wants to tell me how to handle the money......
What a big time jerk.....  I see how this is his way of trying to get into my business, and I am letting it get to me.....  He also blames me for putting him in financial debit. 

From the beginning, I told him that he could have anything from the house.  In the decree, he listed what was to be split which I asked him if he was sure he wanted to do that.  I gave him; his time to say what he wanted, yet he wants to blame me for doing this and that......

There is so much I need to do.......

My first goal is to finish school, and I will.   I have my plan of how I am to handle my situation.  Which I know is not his business, but deep down I want to yell at him.  How stupid are you?  That is it.....  He is an idot!  I am not....

I just need to stick with my plan, and let go of his words.  In the end, I will be ok....  He will not......

He has control of his life.  Instead of blaming me, he needs to learn how to deal with it.

Thanks for listening.......
Till next time.....