I am worried....................

I know now that the girlfriend is crazy.  Her ex husband told me back in July that he felt she was bipolar. I think I am starting to see it.

Yesterday morning, my ex called me.  I has my cell with me at all time.  But for some reason, I did not hear or felt the cell phone.  He had left a message for me.

He first started by said that what goes on with him and Katy is none of my business.  Which I taught if anything he should of told me that yesterday when I asked, but I did not think of anything from it.  Because I know that they have a life to lead.  But what I was surprise on was at the end of the message.  He tells me if I ever lay a hand on Katy that I will have to deal with him.

I flipped......
I did not know what he was talking about.  I was glad that my friend Thelma was there with me.

I tryed calling, and his voice mail came on. I didn't leave a message, but I did try to call Katy.  I wanted to get to the bottom of this, but her voice mail came on too.

So I waited, and I finally got through to my ex.  I asked him what Katy told him.  He said that she was coming out of the salon, and I was waiting for her.  She was in a rush and was trying to go to her car.  She told him that I grab her arm and spin her around to introduce her to my friend.

I told my ex that I am very concerned about this.  Nothing happened and it makes me wonder why she would say something like this.  I told him; I did not touched her, and I am very worry especially that my girls are going to be living with her.  He said that if anything Sabrina has opened up to her.  I told him I wanted to know what is going on with Sabrina.

I flipped again........
She told Katy that her oldest daughter has been talking to her about what her grandfather did to her. Plus she remember what I told her about my father.

I have not wrote about this........
My father touched me.  This happen when I was about 10 to about 15.  He would tell me that he wanted to have sex with me, but I always told him 'NO'.  It was a difficult time for me.  I am over it in some ways.  It does make me sad, but I overcome it.  I know now that I have control of me, but I was very protected of my girls.  I remember Brenda Lee wanted to stay over at a friends house, but the mother was going out-of-town with her son and her daughter was going to be with the dad.  Well, Brenda Lee wanted to go over for a sleep over.  I said "NO" and she could not understand why not.  So I sat both my girls down and told them about me.  And why I have always been protected of them.
So this is what Sabrina is talking about.......

She also told Katy that she is having nightmares.  That is why is tried and sleepy all the time.  Plus she is afraid of all men even her father, but she knows that he would not hurt her.
I told my ex that worries me.  It does not make sense. She is afraid of you.  Then he said yes, but she still wants to live with me.

I have believe that Katy had some doing about her girls saying that there grandfather and dad had touch them.  I believe she has played with their minds and are confused.  And now I am worried that she is doing the same to Sabrina.

I told my ex that I wanted Sabrina in therapy.  I demand.  I told him that I did not want her to be talking to Katy, but I know that she is under his care.  But I tried talking to him.  I told him that if he did not I was going to talk to my attorney.  He flipped and kept saying.

Brenda don't do this.  You are going to make her shut down.  She told Katy all this in confidence, and if you do this she is going to shut down.  I told him than he has to do it.  Make her see a therapist.

I will have to finish this later.....
I need to get ready for work....
I will write at work....

Later,