At the airport coming home,
I found this toy for my little man.
He loves it..........
Southwest Airlines, what I fly.......
And I finally did it.......
My son is now sleeping in a bed.
He is about to be 4 years old, next Sat.
And he was still sleeping in a crib....
He is my baby........
And my last..........
Was trying to keep him that way.
But I know he is growing up.
I did take him to pick out his sheets, etc..
And what does he pick..............
Superman............. Boys.
The pictures show the date 7/23/06
becausewe were up late last night......
My friend Melinda was over and
color and highlighting my hair.........
Also Brenda Lee came over last night.
She called me around 9:30 pm.....
She apologize that she did not call earlier.
But she wanted to come over........
She came over and help set up DJ's bed
and railing.
Then she just hanged out..........
After my friend left,
I sat with her and watch tv.
I did ask her if she was ok..........
And she said yes.
Sabrina did not come over.
MY ex call while Brenda Lee was heading
to my apartment.
He said that Sabrina wanted to practice
her flute.
Summer Band starts this coming week.
And he said the girls have been practicing.
The pass Monday,
when I had the girls over for dinner.
Sabrina and Brenda Lee had said
They would call me to set up plans
for this weekend.......
So that is why Brenda Lee was apologizing.
At least one out of the two called.
Today, DJ has a birthday party to attend.
One of his classmates.
I asked Brenda Lee to go with me.
I do not know the parents.
But it was an excuse to have her come.
I know how to make friends with parents.
But I wanted her to come along.
The ex and I had an appointment
with the therapist on Friday.
She will be seeing Sabrina on Monday.
The appointment went well.....
My ex did most of the talking but
He needed too........
He knows how the girls are acting.....
I am feeling so left out......
When it comes to the girls.
I miss them so much.........
but hate the drama.........
I know it will get better.
Ok, now I am changing the subject.
I need some advice..........
My ex has visitation on 1st, 3rd and 5th
of every weekend.
He wants to see if I would change that.
He would like to have the 2nd, 4th and 5th.
The reason.............
His girlfriends girls visit dad
on the 1st, 3rd and 5th......
When my ex has DJ.
So, they have kids every weekend.
He also told me that.....
In the future, if I start dating someone
with kids and has the same visitation.
It will work out the same for us.......
Right now, I am not dating someone
who has young kids..............
Plus this pissed me off...........
He is the one who did this mess......
Why should I change something.....
to please him.............
He has some nerve.........
You know, when I have DJ
and something has come up...........
I get a babysitter...........
Plus why do I want my son
to be with her kids.........
When right now,
he has his father's full attention.
I have been going over and over with this.
And it pisses me more off
that he even suggested it............
But I do wonder.......
If I do start to date someone with kids.
How would it be.............
Plus I could ask him again
if this becomes a question for me.
I know my ex will be for it but.....
then I know.........
that DJ will not get dad's attention.
This is hard..........
Please give me your input..........
Till next time.............
Sunday, July 23, 2006
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Your boy is so cute, he looked happy in his new bed, yes the security bar will do the job.
ReplyDeleteGlad you are having some time with Brenda Lee, its good for the two of you that Sabrina is not there, this time.
As for the ex, the thing is, has he done for you? Has he changed things around for you in the past when you needed it? Does he give you a hard time? Or is he only nice when he wants something? Yep, this little plan is to make their life easier. Depending on how you feel he' been in the pastand recently, should aide in your decision, but didn't they make the bed they're laying in?
Delaine
ps. LOVE, LOVE, LOVE, Lisa Jo's comment!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
ReplyDeletelol
I'll have to say .... exactly what lisaJo said.
ReplyDeletegood luck with that.
hugs,
Ellen
PS big boy bed now !!!
Oh, Brin...how about a comprimise with the Ex for visitation with DJ. Explain to him that yes he could switch one weekend and keep the other two the same. In other words he can have DJ the 2nd 3rd and fifth weekend of every month. I can understand why he would want a kid free weekend but at the same time I can understand that yes it is nice that DJ can have some one on one. See with divorce there has got to be compromise or the courts get involved and then that is more time missed from work more money spent on lawyers and in the meantime the kids are sensing or overhearing what is going on and they get hurt the most of the whole situation! I know it was David who left you and he is very very wrong for that. Don't worry he will get his but in the meantime just try your hardest to get along with him.
ReplyDeleteLove the new bed..how is he doing sleeping in it? What a cutie he is, I could just tell he is such a snuggle bug sweet little boy from his pictures...you don't see evil in his eyes like you would my little Kaitlynn's LOL!!! Just kidding!
Daniella