Wednesday, August 2, 2006

Darn AOL.......

I wrote an entry, then click on save and it lost my entry.

I am so frustrated........
I spent the afternoon with my girls shopping for back to school clothes. UGH.........  Before we did.  We had lunch.  I told my girls that I knew about the news and asked them how they felt.  They said they were fine, but had a problem with the girls.  I asked them what they meant.  They said that Leah the older daughter lies all the time. That the other day they came back home from summer band and found that Sabrina's computer mouse and by the computer was soda spilled, which leah was the only one in the house.  So when they told their dad and confronted Leah.  She said that she did not do it, but when they arguing about it.  She started to cry and the ex took her side and said to drop it. 

Sabrina also told me that when the ex told her about Katy, a year ago.  He told her that his kids were his first priority, and now that has changed.  I could see her frustration.  I told her that she needs to keep trying to talk to her dad about things, but I know how she feels.  I am trying to make him understand things about DJ, and he does not understand.  I told them what I said to my ex, and how it would be with DJ.  Who can explain his feeling like the girls can.  This is why I worry for DJ.

Well, till next time......

  

4 comments:

  1. OH boy!  Well at least the girls are opening up to you, so you are not so blind to what is going on at that house!

    Gotta love AOL, someone once suggested to me to write my entry in microsoft word first then copy and paste it into my journal, that way if aol is screwing up again you will not have to retype the whole thing!

    Talk to ya soon

    Daniella

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  2. at least the girls are talking to you:) maybe dear old dad will wake up but i wouldn't hold my breath on that one lol

    Deb

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  3. I'm sorry this is hard on the kids most
    hugs,
    Ellen

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  4. Isn't it a sad day when a father can't even try to see his kids perspective, and all because he doesn't want to piss off the girlfriend.  Things will NOT get better, and when they are married, they will get worse.  I'll bet the girlfriend sure defends HER girls!!  Kids always lose.  Keep the lines of communication open, thats all you can do.  Listen :)  Take care...
    xoxo ~Myra

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