Wednesday, August 2, 2006

I can't sleep............

I am so worry................

I picked up my son from daycare, and the teacher had a talk with me.  She told me that during nap time.  DJ had pulled down his shorts and underwear to almost his knees and just sat on the cushion.  He did not want to take a nap and the rule is to sit on the cushion,either way, but that he had done this.  She asked him to put up his shorts and underwear and would not.  I asked her if she asked him if he needed to go to the bathroom, and she said she did.  I need asked her if she told him that she was going to discipline him.  She respond by saying that she can not discipline him, he would not sit in the time out chair.  That she has been having problem disciplining him.  I asked her if she was the only teacher having problem or were the other teacher have problems too.  She said yes the other teacher were having problem.  She said that last week they had a sub and that DJ misbehaved badly.  I know last week on Wednesday they had called me to pick up DJ because he was already sent to the office twice.  She said that Marco wanted to see me because they wanted to set up an parent/teacher meeting.  So I went to talk to him and set that up.  I also asked him if they log each problem that they have had with DJ; times and dates.  He said yes, and I asked him if he could get me a copy of that.  I wanted it so I could talk with the therapist about this.

DJ is most good days, but them when he has bad days, they make it seem like he is always bad.  So I am comfussed.

Well, I came home and started talk to him why he did.  He really would talk to me.  So I called the EX.  He talked to him, but I did not over heard there conversation.  The ex and I got into a huge arguement which I will talk about tomorrow.  But I did get him to talk to DJ.  After there talk, he asked DJ to give me the phone, he asked if I over heard their conversations.  I told him no but he said that he asked DJ if someone told him to put down his shorts.  DJ said yes, and he asked who.  DJ said Mr. cole.  The EX asked me if there is a Mr. Cole.  I told him no, but there is a Ms. Nicole.  He said I needed to talk to the daycare tomorrow morning.

I am going to talk to the daycare, but what will happen?
Will CPA be involved, or do I need to get them involved?

I just can't believe that this is happening.  You all know that the EX's girlfriend girls situations.  At first when they told me about this.  Katy came into my mind.  Is she messing with my son's mind.  But now my son is saying it is the afternoon teacher.

Oh my..... I can't believe this is going on.  I have so many mixed emotion, plus the arguement with the ex today did not help. UGH.........  What a big JERK he is.

Please say a prayer for us.......

Till next time..........

 

5 comments:

  1. Yeah Brin, your little guy is acting out isn't he.
    You really should have stayed in the room with him when he
    was having his conversation with his dad.
    I don't think the teacher told him to pull his pants down. She told him to pull them up, when she saw them down. I thnk your boy was worried that his dad was mad, or he would get in trouble. Now I'm not making light of the situation, I just don't think the teacher has anything to do with it.
    I am so sorry you are having such a time though. Stay strong my friend.
    Delaine

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  2. i agree with Delaine. ask your girls did they see anything weird when DJ was there with dad and witchy

    Deb

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  3. I'm kinda agreeing with Delanie too, and I also think he's acting out.  Something is going on somewhere.  Hopefully you can get to the bottom  of it.  Give the therapist a call, maybe he/she can shed some light on this too.  keep us posted.    

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  4. I dont think the teacher is involved, your EX asked him the wrong way...and he answered trying to blame someone. just my opinion.
    good luck
    Ellen

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  5. i think that your ex would lie to Jesus Himself to save his ass and his girlfriends ass. I dont think that teacher has done anything and that DJ may be confused and upset or scared. Do not believe your ex.
    I am so sorry this is happening on your birthday!
    LOVE,
    lisa

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