Ok.... I have been avoid this but it is time.  I want to tell you about what happen last Friday; the good and the bad..........

Now, the bad first, so the good will come last.

 

Last Friday night was the last football game for my girls, plus it was going to be Parents Night.  The band introduces their Senior Members and Parents.  Well, guess what happen.  My ex's new wife stands on the field with us.  I was so pissed; I told him she did not belong there, but he disagreed said that she washes her clothing and cooks for her.  She is her step-mother, and she was going to be there.  I did not want to argue, so I let it be.  Oh, they made this wooden pins for the mothers to have to wear that night.  My friend who had a senior band daughter told me about the pins and for me to go and get mine before the step-mother did because they only had one.  I got mine on after awhile I wonder how they were going to announce us.  So I went to ask the lady who was handling the pins about this.  She told me that she did not know that the paperwork was already in the booth.  She looked at me and told me she was sorry.  Then she said that she saw that my ex had her there.  Remember that not everyone has heard that they are married; at that time it was not even a week that they were married.  So she is looking at me like she feels for me.  Then she tells me that Katy went and asked for her pin.  The lady had to tell her that there was only one pin.  She should had told her that is was for the MOTHER OF THE DAUGHTER not the step-mother.  Oh, I forgot to tell you all what else she did.  I was stand by the gate to hand off DJ to my ex because it was his weekend with him, and we made arrangements for him to pick him up before the game.  When they walked in; Katy was carry roses.  I was so pissed.  When I argued with my ex earlier; he did not mention anything about this, so I felt like I was the mean mom.  She had roses to present to her, and I had nothing.  Oh I wanted to run.......  I felt so little and like everyone was looking at me.  I think they were; most of the people that were there know me and about the ex.  So I feel like we are drama of the town for the moment.  My friend told me to breathe and just smile.  I did.....

When they call Brenda Lee's name.  They announce:  Brenda Lee with her father David Del Moral and Katy Del Moral and her mother Brenda Del Moral.  I thanked Brenda Lee the next day because she was the one who filled out the paperwork, and she had them announce us that way.  So when we were stand on the sidelines waiting.  Katy was complaining that her arms hurt because of carry the roses, so the ex took them.  And once Brenda Lee was walking down to stand next to us by the sidelines.  Dad was handing her the roses, so it look like dad with giving her the roses.  Plus they gave Brenda Lee one rose to give away, and she gave it to me, but I did reach for it.  I did not want her to give it to Katy; I would have lost it for sure if that happened.  We took picture also, and I was so upset that Katy was going to be in the picture.  Well, when the photographer asked for out money order.  I hand mine, and the ex told the photographer to take Brenda Lee and me together, so I moved to Brenda Lee's other side so my pin could be in the picture; plus I was showing off in front of Katy that I had the pin, and she did not. HEHEHE........  But then my ex hands his money order and gets Brenda Lee to be in the middle of Katy and him.  When all was over.  I had told my ex that I was leaving and that he needed to follow me to my car to get DJ's bag for the weekend.  So he was walking with me, but........

Now for the good part.......

I was walking and saw my friends.  I would stop and say hello, then walk and stop to say hello.  This happen 2 or 3 times while David was walking with me.  We were almost to the gate entrance, so he waited for me there.  Well, this guy who had been looking at me when I was on the sidelines came up to me and said hello.

GUY: Hello, my name is Ruben. (shaking hands)

ME: Hi, I am Brenda.  Do I know you.

RUBEN: No, but I wanted to tell you that you are a beautiful lady.

ME: (smiling, then I look over to where David is standing then look back at him)  Oh, thank you.  (I giggle)

RUBEN:  Are you leaving?

ME: Yes, I am meeting up with some friends.

RUBEN:  Well, let me give you my phone number, so you can call me later.

ME:  Let me give you my number, you call me when you are available.

I have made a rule for myself; if they are interested in me.  They could call me.  So I gave him my phone number.

OK.....  I HAVE TO SAY THIS.....

FOOTBALL TICKETS:  $6.00
FOOD AT THE GAME: $10.00
GETTING HIT ON IN FRONT OF YOUR EX-HUSBAND: PRICELESS.........  LOL.........

My cousin and I came up with that one and laughed our ass off............

Anyway, Ruben did text message me that night, but I was already with someone.  I know......  I told him to call me on Saturday, and he did.  The other guy did not workout, so I am see how things workout with Ruben.

Well, that is all for now......

Oh, in one week on Thanksgiving Day.  My Brenda Lee will be 18........  I can not believe that.......  I remember when I was 18.

Till next time.......