Me and Dave......
OK... my entry,
Well, I have some good news and bad....
First, the good.... I made a ‘B’ in my English course. YeeHaw.... I am so glad that is over, and that I did that well. I sucked on my essay, but I made it through.
As for the bad news, I lost one of my good friends to a guy.
That has me really sad..... I know that if she could do this than our friendship didn’t really mean much to her or so I think.
You see...
This pass weekend, Susan and I went to the Frio River, camping and some relaxing time or so I thought. We were following her guy that she been seeing off and on, plus his cousin and friend. We got there Friday night just in time to set up camping. It started off nice. We were by the river, BBQing, and just hanging out. It got late, but we were having a good time. We went to the river to check it out; it was dark, but we want to jump in. I got soaking wet, so I want to head back to camp and change. Susan told me to follow (I’ll call him ‘H’) H to the camp site which was about 50 yards. He was heading back to grab some beer and head back to the river, so I followed. Well, we got to the camp and he hit on me. OH I forgot to mention that they were smoking pot. I don’t do that, but he was high and drunk. Yes, I will admit that, but it did not give him the right to do what he did. He even pulled out his willie and showed it to me. I kept telling him no and couldn’t believe that he was doing this. How much my friend loved him, and he was such an ass. My friend and the cousin were heading back to camp site. The only reason why he stopped even thought I was saying ‘no.’ I couldn’t say anything to my friend. The next morning I stayed away from him and through the whole trip. I didn’t speak to him. We went floating around 1 pm till about 8 pm. It was such a trip.....
We had everything happen to us. They had tried the tubes together, so we could stay together. Well, that was a bad idea... We hit a tree and headed different directions. It was scary because the water was raging. I was shaking after that but knew I had to get back on the tube, if I was going to finish this. The ice chest flew over, and we lost our sun block and some beer. We got back on the tubes and headed down the river. There were more close calls, but we survived. I did hit a rock on my butt and have a major burse. I am hurting and so sun burn. I am sore all over my body, even my toes hurt. LOL... but this was a life experience. I want to go back and float down the river.
I kept thinking about Dave. I am not sure I told yall about Dave. His really name is David, but I can’t call him that; reminds me of my OLD David. It’s that funny, OLD David and now a NEW David, just like OLD Christine and NEW Christine. LOL...
But I wished that Dave was there with me on the river.
Anyway, I didn’t tell Susan about what happen till we got home. I really didn’t want to tell her, but the whole trip back was how ‘H’ treated her like shit. She didn’t hook up with him either night and he didn’t even treat her like a friend. So I told her. She left and I tried to call her, but she didn’t answer. She finally emailed me telling that ‘H’ admitted that he did what I said, but he said that I did more. She believes him, but she was more hurt that I said that he invited us to go so he could get it on with me. My Point: He didn’t hook up with her and he hit on me. So am I wrong? I did say that but that is how I feel. She said that even thought that is how I felt that was still rude and mean to say that to a friend.



It's never wrong to tell the truth, although it certainly is one of the hardest things to do given the situation you were put in. If anything she should have respected you more as a friend BECAUSE you told the truth.
ReplyDeleteIt's probably a good thing he didn't get together with your friend "H" sounds like an immature A-wipe!
That little trip could have been a wonderful time, but sorry to read that it wasn't. Maybe your friend just needs some time to let it all sink in and let the pain and disappointment sink in and get past it, so she can see you for the REAL friend you were being to her to tell her the truth.
As for your good news. Congrats on your B in English!
Lisa